the men or women who understand the dynamic biological change of
life that so dramatically affects mature relationships.
Biologically, both women and men are 'defined' by their hormone
balance between estrogen and testosterone with about 60/40%
respectively for women and 40/60% for men.
In about the same
proportions, women tend to 'think' with their feelings; right brain
dominant. And men tend to 'feel' with their thinking; left brain
dominant. The exception to this rule is 'Alpha females' - a
masculine spirit incarnate in a woman's body... and 'Omega males' -
a feminine spirt incarnate in a man's body.
So hormonally we are 'wired
differently'. This is psychologically controversial but
Both men and women go
go through hormonal
reversal later in life.
It's well documented that woman go through menopause - a pause in
their production of estrogen - just as men go through 'testerpause'. Sexist media rarely mentions
testerpause and focuses on menopause as if women have more of an
issue with the 'big change' than men do.
Women's health is their greatest wealth and a blessing for men.
Most women understand that intuitively. Most men are hormonally
clueless. Laugh if you will, but it helps to understand this
important dynamic in relationship health.
The role that hormones play in mature relationships includes a
natural process of 'role reversal' as the balance of estrogen and
testosterone are reversed. But only until the last few generations
have humans lived long enough for this natural process to be well
fulfilled and acted out, often with big drama.
I'm speaking in general terms, and there are obvious exceptions that
get lots of attention, but consider the truth in what I'm saying,
and judge for yourself.
Most men and many women are largely ignorant of what happens to
their endocrine system as they mature... and how the body tries to
maintain "homeostasis" (balance), even when
dominant hormonal roles reverse. A healthy immune system secretes
sufficient hormones to self-regulate during the 'Big Shift'. A weak
immune system doesn't adapt well.
It's natural that men become more sensitive with lower testosterone
levels and higher estrogen levels. It's natural that they express
feelings more, cry easier, and reflect on their life with more
regret for lack of sensitivity to women in their life.
Men's blessing for loving kindness is to soften their heart,
experience joy and rejuvenate their constitution thereby. Women's
health in a relationship with a mature man will experience what her
man is experiencing... and visa versa. When the 'Big Shift' happens
to either, it naturally affects the other.
What I'm saying is that a lot of maturing relationships would
benefit from this understanding.
The reversal in hormonal
is when most divorces occur.
There is two ways to look at this. One way is that women become
more masculine and assertive in the relationship, and that causes an
identity crisis in some men. Likewise - as men become more feminine and sensitive
- women are more likely to
reciprocate with any emotional abuse they may have received from men
in the past.
Ideally both partners will
always have enlightened compassion for each other, but that's not
always the case. That's when the one partner must 'hold the
balance' for the other... with understanding and forgiveness that
redirects behavior for the good of both.
That's what any good marriage relationship does, all sexism aside.
Two-in-One is the same 'heavenly' principle found in our universe
where binary stars are the norm... but I digress.
Hormonal balance is the holy grail of a healthy endocrine-immunity
system, but hormonal harmony for a strong immune system is not well
understood as a big factor in mastering the 'Big Shift' in mature
We can't ignore the
hormonal terrain that goes with the territory, so to speak.
Is it true -- as numerous studies show -- that optimists live far
longer than pessimists? Are you aware that this is also true of
loving relationships? And would you agree that what you do to
improve your immune system also improves how you 'adapt' in any
Adaptogens are those nutrients that help the body to adapt to stress
as produces stress hormones like cortisol which weakens the immune
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